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How To Be a Conduit To Allow More Love: Learning To Forgive And Forgive Well.

How To Be a Conduit To Allow More Love: Learning To Forgive And Forgive Well.

“There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.” -Bryant H.McGill

Understanding that we are each on different levels of our own evolution in life, we recognize that we are all on a journey in an upward spiral of our own becoming, even if we seem to be unskilled at times. The way to transform our life and to be a conduit to carry more Love, is to open our heart to compassion. To do this we must learn the ways of forgiveness – to forgive and forgive well.

As we lean into this practice we let go of our own mistakes and view them as learning. In doing so we can then apply compassion and forgiveness to the unskilled mistakes of ourselves and others.

Personally, I carried years of bitterness and resentment over the divorce from the father of my two daughters. Even though, I remarried a wonderful new husband who was a terrific provider and supportive father to my girls, I was still filled with a toxic resentment. This prevented me from fully living my life. It was when I finally decided to release the pain, once-and-for-all, to let go and forgive that our entire relationship, and the relationship my daughters had with their father, changed.

Today, we all are able to honor the fact that from this union two beautiful women were born.  Both are married with families of their own. We now share in the joy of a blended family during holidays and on the baseball fields with our grandsons.

I did not make this happen, however, I did make this welcome. I gave up one perception for a higher perception, which comes when we are able to forgive. In doing so, we become a clear conduit for Love’s presence.

It is in giving that we receive. Forgiving is a “giving for”, or giving to ourselves. In “giving for”, we transform a perception that would create bitterness, sorrow, anger, resentment and un-peace in our hearts, into a higher perception of allowing. We allow a “do-over” of the energies that are very constricting to the body and spirit and we let go and allow the release of pain, which will then begin to move our mind, heart and thoughts toward the truth. Truth… meaning we are all spiritual beings having a human experience doing the best we know how in any given moment. This perception has the potential to change the energy in our body and the relationships in our past

Forgiving is a daily practice and we all have forgiveness work to do even if we think we may not. Our past is long and deep and there are corners where our “thug-thoughts” reside in.

I would encourage you to do a daily exercise asking the Divine or your higher Self, “Who or what would you have me forgive today?” Then listen and write down what comes to mind. Because, forgiving is a daily practice. And guess what? When you forgive, your heart grows bigger and you become a conduit to allow more Love in your life!


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Julie Jones Hamilton is a successful Certified Life Mastery Consultant, Professional Motivational Speaker and Author. As a trained specialist to thousands of women, Julie empowers them to listen to their own authentic voice within, stand in their true potential and create  rich and meaningful relationships. Julie is one of the Founders of www.fourdames.com. The Four Dames is a collaborative coaching company that empowers Women to create a life of freedom, purpose and fun, which specializes in the areas of Health, Wealth, Love and Purpose.

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